The best advice I received in life… period, full stop. “Find power in what you can control.” And I did just that. All of the things I did before starting treatment after finding out I had breast cancer. 1) I immediately found fertility doctor and started a round of fertility treatment to expedite a round of egg retrieval. This took about 10 days total. 2)I was public about my diagnosis and cast a wide net to my network. I sent out the bat signal to my friends. Human connection is NOT dead, and p